when this is a bad thing

Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant by double-dipping their tortilla chips or sharing a glass of water.  On the other hand there are millions of us trying every pill, shot, diet and dish we can find with hope of having a child.  Infertility is unfair.

when this is a good thing

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 6:23).  Salvation is unfair.

it is a lot easier for me to get upset that life is not fair.

i am not ashamed that i get upset.

i do wish that i could catch myself rejoicing every once in a while that life is unfair.